22 July 2003

Money talk

Posted by DAVID BC TAN under: Uncategorized.

When was the last time you talked about money with your kids? If the thought has never occurred to you, it’s time you think about it. Living in a land of plenty (compared to less advantaged Third World countries) sometimes confuses folks on the value of money.

A lot of kids - especially younger ones - get weird ideas about where the stuff comes from. Many more imagine it’s the ticket to happiness, judging from the vibes they feel at home. Our actions or responses to periods when cash is tight (irritable, anxious) or when we receive a too-good-to-be-true bonus (overjoyed, relieved) tell all. Although legitimate, that speaks volumes to impressionable children.

This is not to say that when money is being discussed we’ve got to put our halo on. Maybe play at being vulcan-like, ala Mr Spock, or stoic like the other Star Trek character, Data the android. Interestingly, in the 24th century (according to Star Trek lore), money is obsolete. As Capt Jean-Luc Picard tells us, humanity now works for a higher ideal, and service is its own reward. Hmm.

Whether we have much or little, money is God’s gift, for which we must remain thankful. Scripture’s many references to the rich and poor often focus on attitude of heart, not displays of generosity. To hold your gift with an open palm, to hope in God and never in wealth, is vital. But says Paul, the final word and the bottom line is contentment:

“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength”. Philippians 4:11~13

That’s a hard lesson for any kid. Or adult.

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